Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast

How Calling Your Wife Out Can HELP Your Marriage

Did you know what your wife WANTS you to call her out?

Maybe not consciously, but unconsciously, she wants you to show STRENGTH and LEADERSHIP in your marriage.

And that means, when it’s appropriate, calling out her inappropriate behavior (in a strong and loving way)…

DISAGREEING with her at times (in a strong and loving way)…

And passing other “strength tests” she throws your way.

(You’ll learn what a few of more of them are in this video or podcast).

Like any strength building, it’s uncomfortable at first…

But leads to BIG benefits later.

You’ll have to ABANDON the mantra “happy wife happy life…”

Because it requires DISCOMFORT for her and you to set boundaries in this way.

And start to believe the mantra “strong is sexy.”

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.

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Mike

P.S. If you’re ready to feel STRONGER and create more INTIMACY in your marriage than you’ve EVER experienced, come join us in The Strong Man System.

You’ll have more physical, mental, emotional and spiritual intimacy in your marriage than you have EVER had… in 90 days or less… or your money back.

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Different Religion Marriage – How It Can Be A GOOD Thing

If you and your wife have a different religion marriage, it can be SCARY.

A lot of experts will tell you that this can be a big cause for PROBLEMS in marriage.

BUT, it can also be an incredible OPPORTUNITY.

For MORE intimacy and connection.

In fact, you may find that discussing and understanding this different religion marriage brings MORE intimacy than almost anything else.

Learn how this can happen in this episode.

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.

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https://youtu.be/mX0ER-VCk_0

And, if you’re ready to have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids… in 90 days or less… join us in The Strong Man System.

I’ll see you there!

Mike

Win Your Wife Back Workshop Part 2 – How To Get The BEST Relationships You’ve EVER Had… In 90 Days Or Less

You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.

In part 1 of the workshop, we learned that the main problem is that your wife is not ATTRACTED to you right now.

That’s why she wants a divorce or separation, “loves you but is not in love with you,” or is interested in someone else.

We learned that STRENGTH is what ATTRACTS women.

Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.

We started learning HOW to build that up.

And how to become an EXPERT at communication, conflict management and intimacy.

This week you’ll learn the FINAL steps to TRANSFORM your marriage…

And create the BEST relationships you have EVER had.

With God, yourself, your wife and your kids…

In 90 days or less…

Guaranteed.

Watch on YouTube

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strong-men-strong-marriages/id1513290707

You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.

It’s a ONE TIME investment of $2,000 with a LIFETIME of benefits.

-LIFETIME access to online materials

-LIFETIME access to ask me questions ANY time… as often as you WANT

-LIFETIME access to our member’s only Facebook group for support

-LIFETIME access to a weekly group call for LIVE coaching

And…

If you complete ALL the materials…

And follow through on ALL the habits…

For 90 days straight…

And don’t feel like you have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids…

You get your investment BACK.

There’s nothing to lose and a lifetime of health and happiness to gain (According to the 80-year long Harvard Study of Adult Development).

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See you inside!

Mike

The Counterintuitive Way To Get More Attention, Appreciation And Affection From Your Wife

How do you get your wife to pay more attention to you?

Appreciate you more?

Kiss, hug and have sex with you more?

Some couples therapists will say “just ask for it.”

This seems like it would work… BUT IT DOESN’T.

You know because you’re already trying this.

Learn what to do INSTEAD… that ALWAYS works… in this episode.

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Mike

What Is Success In Marriage?

You think it’s…

Good sex. Being appreciated. Being valued. Being loved.

And, a successful marriage does include ALL of those things.

BUT…

Your wife CAN NOT give those to you.

These things MUST come from something DEEPER and more SOLID than your wife’s words and actions.

And you CAN feel those things… even WITHOUT your wife.

You can feel full, valued, loved and appreciated.

Learn how in this episode.

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

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Mike
P.S. The Strong Man System introduction will be opening up on September 21, 2020. This is the course that GUARANTEES you will have the BEST relationship you have EVER had with your wife… in 90 days or less. CLICK HERE to learn more.

You Are Worth Choosing – How To Stop Needing Your Wife’s Validation

A lot of the men I work with are looking for VALIDATION from their wives.

Now, they will call it different things.

They will say “I just want my wife to care” or “I just want my wife to have sex with me” or “I just want my wife to reach out to me when she doesn’t need something.”

But, when it comes down to it, they are asking for their wife to VALIDATE their sense of self-worth.

I did this for YEARS in my marriage.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t work.

Your wife can NOT be responsible for your sense of self-worth.

She can try for a while, but eventually she’ll get tired of it.

Instead, you need to KNOW for YOURSELF that you have INFINITE worth and potential.

That you are WORTH choosing.

Then, you can go out and serve your wife WITHOUT expecting her attention, appreciation or affection…

Which is when you are MOST LIKELY to get it from her.

Because she knows there really are “no strings attached.”

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

Watch on YouTube

Mike

P.S. If you want to learn EXACTLY how to be the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself…

And have the BEST relationship you have EVER had with your wife in 90 days or less…

CLICK HERE to learn how.

I’ll see you there!

Why Physical Strength Matters – What I Learned From Dunking A Basketball

As I’ve thought about how to help my clients better, I realized that I neglected something VERY important…

Developing your physical strength and fitness.

Find out why in this week’s episode:

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

Watch on YouTube here

Summary:

When you work on a physical goal, MANY good things happen…

-Your overall health and energy improve

-Your mind works more easily and quickly

-You are able to find purpose and meaning

-You have TOTAL control over it, which is powerful… especially when you’re feeling powerless

-You develop consistency and the ability to fail, both of which are necessary in to succeed in ALL areas of life

Mike

P.S. If you are ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… and create a better marriage than you ever thought POSSIBLE in the process…

Come join us in The Strong Man System. I guarantee you’ll have the best relationship you’ve EVER had with your wife… or your money back. You can find out details here.

My Negative Marriage Pattern

In case you thought a great marriage is always perfect…

You’re wrong!

In this episode I share a negative pattern that has plagued our marriage for YEARS…

And what I did to FINALLY start breaking free from it.

Hint: It has to do with me feeling like a MARTYR in my marriage.

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

Watch on YouTube here

Summary:

-When I feel like a martyr in my marriage, my WIFE is probably struggling

-Instead of COMPLAINING, use my strengths

-Spiritual strength – Be the strong and loving husband I want to be

-Emotional strength – Seek to UNDERSTAND her and manage my OWN emotions

-Mental strength – Use STFAIR to look at my thoughts

-Sexual strength – Approach sex in a way I can be PROUD of

Mike

P.S. I’m offering a special discount to 30 men who are ready to join The Super Man System – Alpha Group. You will learn EXACTLY how to build up these strengths and skills to have the BEST marriage you have EVER had. Guaranteed. And at a $500 discount. See the details here.

How To Be More Sexually Attractive To Your Wife – Interview With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

“Your wife can prop up your ego or your penis, but not both.”

Today I have a VERY special treat for you all!

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife!

If you’re not familiar with her work, she is a licensed therapist who specializes in relationships and sexuality.

She is one of the people I respect and admire very much and who has helped me understand why focusing on STRENGTH is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to sexual attraction.

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

Watch on YouTube here

In this interview you will learn:

-How the female sexual response works… and why being a good CHOICE for her is so important

-Why you need to STOP being “pathetic” when it comes to sex… and what to do instead

-How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s ATTRACTIVE… instead of just saying “do you want to have sex?”

-My own personal breakthrough at the end of the interview about the feeling of “taking” sex from my wife… and how I can approach it in a way I can be PROUD of… even though my wife has a history of serious sexual abuse

You can find Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s excellent courses and retreats here.

And, if you are looking for a system to become a STRONGER and MORE ATTRACTIVE version of yourself, check out my free workshop and introduction to The Super Man System here.

Mike

How To Get Your Wife (And Others) To Do More Of What You Want

Most people come to me because they’re not happy in their marriage.

They’re not getting enough of what they want from their wife.

BUT, they usually are NOT doing the MOST EFFECTIVE things to get their wife (or others) to do more of what they want.

Learn the BEST and MOST EFFECTIVE ways to influence others to do more of what you want in this episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast (Apple Podcast link here)

Summary:

-COMPLAINING will NOT get you more of what you want

-Figure out EXACTLY what you want your wife to do

-Ask for that, giving a REASON why you want it

-If she says “no…”

-Try to understand WHY

-Feel the hard emotions that come up

-Decide what YOU will do if she says “no”

-Follow through on what you said you would do

Mike

P.S. If you are ready to really APPLY what you’re learning and CREATE the marriage that you’ve always wanted, watch my workshop to see more of my PROVEN methods and to see how we can work together more. CLICK HERE to watch.