-Focus on pleasure and connection instead of orgasm (especially if either of you has difficulty with orgasm)
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-An outside perspective is INVALUABLE to finding your negative patterns
-Find your “old moves” and intentionally choose “new moves” for the important people in your life
-Use mapping as a way to more deeply understand and connect with the important people in your life
-The book Brain Talk can help you through this process. You can get it on Amazon here.
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-If it’s because you think THERE is better than HERE… you’re heading for disappointment
-Instead, set goals from a place of LOVE for yourself and those around you… and SERVICE towards yourself and others
-This is an INFINITE source of strength and motivation for your goals… and will unleash your true potential
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-What’s a hassle that I can take away or make easier for her? A pain I can help remove?
-If you’re going to offer a spa day, girls’ trip, house cleaning, make sure it’s SCHEDULED and PAID FOR and child care ARRANGED
-Consider the 5 love languages (gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service)
-If you’re separated, focus on gifts that encourage her personal growth and friendships. Avoid gifts like words of affirmation that can easily become needy. You want the message to be “I want you to be the best version of yourself, whether we stay together or not.”
P.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on December 28-31. Make 2021 the year that you become the strongest version of yourself… and create the best marriage you’ve ever had in the process.
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-Don’t take responsibility for your wife’s depression or anxiety
-Don’t try to “fix” her depression or anxiety
-Physically being there, even without saying anything, is very helpful to her
-Make sure to be managing your own self-care well
-Make getting help not a big deal, as she likely feels like a burden and doesn’t want to be a financial burden
-Model getting help by getting help or coaching for yourself
Mike P.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on Friday, November 27th – Monday, November 30th. Give your family the gift of a strong and loving leader in their home. There’s nothing more meaningful you could do for them.