How you see your wife, as a person to serve or an object to serve you, has everything to do with creating passion in your marriage.
Use this month to really see your spouse as a person to serve, and look at how you have been using her as an object to serve you (to build up your self esteem).
Writing and accountability are key to integrating your learning and building strength, so don’t skip this step!
Also, use this month to review your personal mission statement and make updates if needed.
You can review how to do that here.
And if you haven’t written your personal mission statement yet, DO IT NOW, BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING ELSE! You can review how to write it here.
Use our Google Classroom to submit your monthly reflection, as well as your monthly Thought Record here. Class code: 2ili7k
Step 1 – Review These Videos
Step 2 – Write and Share
Writing is key to consolidating your learning and strength building. Don’t skip this!
You’ll want to write:
- What you learned
- What you were doing that was causing problems (give specific examples)
- What you are doing/will do now to fix it (make a clear plan)
- What has happened as a result of making those changes
Write steps 1-3 early in the month and share them with your wife and kids. Have them help you be accountable for making the changes.
Write step 4 at the end of the month, and use our Google Classroom to submit your monthly reflection, as well as your monthly Thought Record here. Class code: 2ili7k
Accountability is what will help you continue to implement what you learn and build your strength!
Monthly Date Ideas
Access our Google Classroom for your monthly date ideas here. Class code: 2ili7k
Extra Credit – Book of the Month
Leadership and Self-Deception by The Arbinger Institute